Shawna is Harassing Me Again
David and/or Shawna tried to ruin my Christmas Eve. However, it didn’t work. All he/she accomplished was getting Granny pissed off. I think it’s pathetic that he/she/they would wait until Christmas Eve to try to stir up drama, but that’s Shawna’s style. She tries to emotionally hurt people as badly as she can. Her tactics don’t work on me anymore. I’d have to give a shit about what they thought for that to happen and quite honestly, I couldn’t give a fuck less.
The only reason I am writing this is because Granny asked me to do so. She said, “I want you and Jess to tell that spiteful bitch that I SAID THIS SHIT BETTER FUCKING STOP! This is bullshit! Our family didn’t have any fights or trouble like this until that BITCH-WITCH came along. She needs to grow up and stop bothering you. So does David Leslie if he’s involved in this crap too. IT’S BULLSHIT!” Anyone who knows my Granny knows she can’t stand the ‘F’ word. She only uses it when she really means it. I’m posting Granny’s warning because I know Shawna still obsessively stalks me via my blog and social networking sites despite the protective order, so this is the best means to get it to her without actually having to interact with the evil cunt and violate my own protective order.
Granny, Mom, Jess, and Taylor all read the messages. Mom is convinced it was all Shawna, pretending to be David and doesn’t even think David knows about it. Granny and Taylor think Shawna did it all, but that David knew about it. Jess and I think David and Shawna both were doing it. I want to think what my mom thinks, but I don’t. None of us think it was David acting alone. Shawna was definitely involved in the harassment, which is a direct violation of the protective order.
For those of you who aren’t Shawna, David, or know either of them you’re probably a bit curious about what this is all about. If you’ve been reading my blog for a couple of years or if you’ve read old posts then you have an idea of what’s going on. For those that don’t, I’ll explain.
Shawna was my best friend since I was like 18. A couple of years ago, when my younger brother got out of prison, he hooked up with her at a party I threw for him. Our family didn’t like it from the start because Shawna is my age1 and she had three kids by three different men already. At first, I was happy for them. Less than two weeks after they got together, they were engaged, and I agreed to be the Maid of Honor. About a week after that, Shawna announced she was pregnant and claimed my brother was the father. Warning bells sounded in my head, but Shawna was my best friend, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Everyone else in my family said from the start there was no way the baby could be David’s biologically. During the two weeks before David had sex with Shawna, she was fucking at least three other men that I know about.
After another week or two, I couldn’t ignore the feeling any longer. My instincts told me from the start that she was conning my brother. I told him what I thought was going on. I wanted him to have the choice to marry her, not the obligation. It backfired and she manipulated him into isolating himself from our family. After the baby was born, I became even more certain that David is not the biological father. I, along with Tori and Jess, offered to pay for the paternity test. David was more than willing, but Shawna fought it every way she could. She started huge fights and told my brother all kinds of lies about stuff I was supposedly doing and saying and he believed her. The day we were supposed to go for the test she started another big fight and the test ended up not being done, again. I realized that day that she would block the test from being done for as long as possible and David would go on believing her bullshit over his own family. So I made the choice to get her out of my life. The only way I could get her to leave me alone was to get a protective order. I was fed up with it all and wanted the drama to stop.
After the protective order was granted, she had no choice but to stop harassing me or face jail. She still tried to turn other family members against me though. It didn’t work. Most of my relatives are not as foolish as my brother. Once she realized she couldn’t turn the ones I care about against me, she backed off. She still obsessively read my blog, but she was smart enough not to comment and harass me that way anymore. I pretty much forgot she existed and it stayed that way for the most part until Christmas Eve, when she started harassing me through David or David’s Facebook profile. I’m going to post the messages in their entirety. I didn’t respond too much to them because it was pointless. Most of what was said via David’s profile was lies or exaggerations and I’ll explain those too. Without further ado, here are the messages.
From David’s Profile
- You know I swore I would never speak to you again after what you tried to do to my family and isolating my son from moms side of my family, But I wanted to let you know, when you get on Taylors facebook to look at Shawna’s your breaking your own protective order. Why dont you forget about me and her and move on already! Stop stalking her facebook or we will press charges against you, Im fed up with all of this, you turned that hole side of my family against me and my son, is that not enough for you? STOP STALKING MY WIFE or charges will be against you next for breaking your own protective order. I know for a fact the protective order is set that she has to leave you alone as you have to do the same, if her looking at your blog or facebook breaks the protective order then you looking at hers does too. And we have 2 people already that say you used Taylors facebook to look at Shawnas. So i suggest you stop. Im not the one to fuck with. Your nothing to me so wont make a fuck for me to turn your ass in. I have proof push us. You bitched about Shawna now your doing what you accuse her of? Get over it and move on bitch
- * My Response
- What the fuck ever. I don’t care about that bitch or your stupid ass. I don’t look at her page. I couldn’t give a damn if either of you stupid fuckers dropped dead. Eat shit and leave me alone!!!!
You’re the dumb fuck that isolated yourself from the family. That was your choice, so don’t be trying to blame that shit on me.
- Btw if you wanna make threats, that’s fine. You have no fucking proof of shit because I don’t waste my time thinking about either of you or looking at anything related to you. I DON’T CARE about the whole situation and haven’t for a very long time. You’ve been dead to me since you believed her lies and let her try to turn Carah against me over what her husband did to me.
You two are scum and deserve each other.
As for turning someone in, watch what you threaten, asshole, because I have enough real proof of protective order violations to put your cunt wife away for at least 5 years. Try me, motherfucker!!!
- What the fuck ever. I don’t care about that bitch or your stupid ass. I don’t look at her page. I couldn’t give a damn if either of you stupid fuckers dropped dead. Eat shit and leave me alone!!!!
- I knew the 5 year part was probably an over-estimation, but I was angry and just posted whatever first came to mind. When I wrote my responses, I thought it was David, but after re-reading them, it is clearly Shawna, pretending to be David. I never did anything to isolate Aiden from my family. David and Shawna did that all on their own by refusing to bring him to visit them. I didn’t make anyone in the family believe Aiden wasn’t David’s they ALL thought that on their own and before I even thought it. In fact, it took several of them to get me to acknowledge that I was having doubts about it myself.
- As for the accusations of me stalking Shawna, oh man, this makes me laugh my ass off. First of all, I don’t look at anything about her because I don’t give a rats ass if she lives or dies. Second, there is no proof of me looking at her wall because I don’t do it. Third, I moved on the day the protective order was granted in my favor. I have never logged on to Taylor’s profile to look at Shawna’s facebook wall. There was one time, last June, when I read some messages on Facebook between Shawna and Taylor, but it was an accident. Taylor had gone camping with me, Tori, and James and we got into a fight. We made up after a week or so and she moved back in at my apartment. Taylor2 was living with me. She used my desktop to surf the net and get on Facebook and stuff. She was supposed to use the Guest profile, but she used mine a lot instead because it had more access. One day, I had gotten on Facebook and seen there was a message notification. I clicked on it and it was from Shawna. At first, I was like why the fuck is this bitch violating the protective order and how did she get past the privacy block on Facebook? Then I noticed that it was on Taylor’s profile. I read the messages because I seen where Shawna was talking about me, trying to turn Taylor against me. I still didn’t look at Shawna’s wall. Then I asked Taylor what was going on. After that, I was curious about how my brother was doing, so I looked at his wall. I also wanted to see if Aiden was finally starting to look at all like David. Then I logged out and into my own profile and I’ve never been on Taylor’s profile again. I swear on everything and everyone I love that is the truth. I don’t look at anything related to Shawna because I don’t care about her in the slightest bit. She is dogshit on the bottom of my shoe.
- After that, I told Taylor to not discuss me with Shawna or discuss Shawna to me. Taylor told Shawna the subject of me is off limits. Anyone else find it weird that Shawna waited six months to confront me about it on Christmas Eve?
From David’s Profile
- You are the one that told everyone he wasnt mine. Have you seen recent pics of him of coarse you have you stalk my wifes facebook. He looks JUST LIKE ME when I was younger, my grandma pearl and MOM say so. You wont ever admit it cause you totally smashed our relationship and ruined my relationship with half of my family. You never have been able to just mind your own business. you always have been and always will be a cunt and drama queen. No worries here I will be leaveing you alone from here. But as i said if i find out your stalking my wife still after this we will be taking our proof to the court house go ahead and push me call my bluff i want you to i would love nothing more then to see you go to jail over your own fake ass false police report and protective order. Take a look and see what nonsense you ruined lives and family relationships over stupid bitch and NEVER contact me again! OR stalk my wives facebook! Or I will make sure you have to uphold the protective order the same she has! and there is time limits if you take shit in right now… they will ask you why you didnt bring it in then and they would see you then for the dramatic shit starting cunt you are! so get real. and carah asked for the info so there no way you can turn shawna in for it. but you guys are all so well at falsifying shit like you did with this WHOLE protective order and police shit anyway, Shawna never stalked you or harrassed you! You were the one stalking and harrassing us because i didnt do what you and Jessica wanted! so shut the fuck up i saw you for who you guys really are now and dont give two shits what happens to you guys as long as you leave my wife alone and stop using taylors facebook to see whats going on in our lives, and taylor and jacob have both saw you on taylors facebook looking at shawnas facebook and will witness to it for us already asked them!
- and I hate to tell you this but even if you did have any kind of proof on my wife WHICH YOU DONT she wouldnt go away for 5 years over a first offense, you’d be lucky if she got more then a warning dumbass! on top of the fact i have seen people violate po’s over and over and never spend more then a night in jail, you really do live in your own little world
- oh and just so you know, Lisa already sent an email to shawna apologizing for LYING to you when she got pissed at Shawna so Shawna also has that email, so there goes half of your so called proof right there.
- any and all your info and “proof” is all lies dumbass cunt
- My Response
- We’ll see about that, asshole
- At this point, I suspected it was Shawna. I was using my iPhone because I had just moved and didn’t have my internet working yet, so I didn’t really respond much. Besides, if it was Shawna, I knew my arguments wouldn’t matter and it’d just be a waste of my time. Arguing with her is like arguing with a fence post, as my Granny says.
- Once again, I didn’t tell anyone in the family that the baby wasn’t David’s, every single one of them said it to me first. She posted a picture of Aiden from October to try to prove that Aiden looks like David. Honestly, Aiden looks more like Lee than ever now. Mom may have told David that Aiden looks like him, but it’s only because she is trying to get him to talk to her more. She still thinks Aiden is Lee’s.
- They can blame me for the severed relationships all they want, but no one in my family told them they didn’t want anything to do with them. In fact, it was quite the opposite. Many family members decided to keep their opinions to themselves about the paternity and avoid the subject with David because they didn’t want to jeopardize their relationship with him and he still cut them off.
- As for my police report and protective order being fake, they are definitely not and I did not lie. I just printed off my blog posts and the comments Shawna made under other people’s names, then I showed them the phone records and transcripts of the text messages. I had no need to lie and I still don’t. I’m not stupid enough to file a false police report or lie to a judge. Shawna just tries to convince people I did so she doesn’t look like the obsessive psycho stalker that she is.
- I haven’t reported protective order violations sooner because she didn’t accomplish anything by breaking it and because as far as I knew she didn’t try to contact me directly. All I wanted from the protective order was her to stop harassing me. I don’t want ANYTHING whatsoever to do with her.
- I think it’s hilarious that they continue to say I’m the one stalking and harassing them.
- To address this further, let’s define a few terms:
- Harass – to disturb persistently; torment, as with troubles or cares; bother continually; pester; persecute; to trouble by repeated attacks, incursions, etc., as in war or hostilities.
- Harassment – the act or an instance of harassing, or disturbing, pestering, or troubling repeatedly; persecution.
- Stalk - to pursue or approach prey, quarry, etc., stealthily; to proceed in a steady, deliberate, or sinister manner.
- Stalking – the act or an instance of stalking, or harassing another in an aggressive, often threatening and illegal manner; of or pertaining to the act of pursuing or harassing.
- Who contacted who here? When was the last time I knowingly engaged in conversation with Shawna? When was the last time I initiated any contact with her at all?
- As for proof of the violations, I have plenty. I have the IP logs from when she would view my blog. I have emails from Lisa saying Shawna was commenting on my blog while pretending to be her as well as other emails from Lisa talking about Shawna would try spying on me anyway she could. Shawna knew Lisa had told me the truth because I wrote about it on my blog and posted some of the emails. Shawna claims Lisa was lying but she’s just trying to cover her ass. Even if Lisa was lying, which I doubt, I have plenty of other proof. I have emails between Carah and Shawna that Carah sent me. I have the messages from Shawna to Taylor about me. I have 4 witnesses who have seen Shawna on my blog and Facebook as well.
- Concerning punishment for the violations, I really don’t care what happens to her, I just want her to leave me alone. I don’t want her in my business or life in any way.
- your threats dont mean shit anymore, you dont have a protective order against me, and you dont have shit on my wife that you can use, because a woman that hates my wife claims she did something? And she is your friend? Think they are going to believe that? The email was from over 2 yrs ago you cant use that anymore. your shit is pathetic and shows how much a waste of skin you really are. you try to play the role of the poor innocent victim but yet your the one that created all of this! you started it all and you have kept it all going! I have emails of people telling us that you have used taylors facebook to look at shawnas and your computer under the circumstances can be used to see just how much you really do look at shawna’s facebook, then you have broke your own protective order. You lie about half the shit in your blog, i have read it where you say i gave you the benefit of the doubt and never said i didnt want shit to do with you anymore, and that i wanted the paternity test for LEE? your a lying ass bitch and you know it. i made if very clear in the beginning of all this that after it settled i wanted nothing to do with your ass and i never once gave a fuck about getting the test for lee i wanted it to try and save mine and your relationship until i see just how shady and what a liar you still are, i thought you had changed from when we were younger but you havent. and you didnt raise me bitch my grandma pearl did! so quit fuckin telling people that too! lying cunt!
- just like in your blog you made it sound like you cut our relationship? bullshit bitch i called you and told you no matter if shawna and i were together or not i wanted nothing to do with you ever again. but you told everyone you washed your hands of me, always have to make it look like you have the upper hand and you made decisions. all because you cant tell all your pathetic ass followers that someone actually saw you for YOU and rid their life of you! My life has been way better since I got rid of you, now you come back around stalking shawna’s facebook by using your little cousins facebook? how pathetic is that? And you pop back up and look, here we are LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE!!! I have saved these emails as well, and I am really considering taking taylor and jacob up on the offer of being witnesses and pressing charges on you, so go ahead and make your threats, because I promise, you will lose, you never bothered to bring up in your whole protective order thing that you posted a new born babys picture on the internet for millions to see without the parents permission i have that post printed off and ready to go, spoke to an attorney and thats illegal due to child abuse and all that shit now a days, and lord knows you DID NOT HAVE OUR PERMISSION to post that picture on the internet. BACK OFF MY FAMILY BITCH AND I MEAN IT!!! and dont email back im done and blocking you now!
- My Response
- You are such a fool. You believe anything. Btw I KNOW Aiden is Lee’s biological son. You do too that’s why you’re too scared to get the paternity test! Prove me wrong! You won’t because you can’t because he has Lee’s DNA, not yours. And for the last time, I don’t look at her fb. I read emails between her and Taylor once and it was not on purpose. So fuck you.
- In my last response, I was really harsh, but it was just an attempt to goad David into getting the paternity test done to prove me wrong.
- In the first part of this response he/she basically admitted what they said about Lisa lying was bullshit. Also he/she is trying to say some of my proof can’t be used, which is untrue. I checked with the police and a lawyer and was told that the statute of limitations does not run out until after the protective order expires. They may wonder why I waited to report the violations, but that won’t stop them from prosecuting over them.
- As for the accusation that I try to play the role of poor innocent victim, I say bullshit. Anyone who knows me knows I don’t play victim. I’m a survivor and a fighter. I haven’t kept anything going between Shawna and I since the protective order was granted in my behalf. They don’t have any proof of me using Taylor’s facebook to stalk Shawna because I haven’t done so in any way, shape or form. As for my computer being used as evidence, that’s fine because it will show that I don’t do what they’re claiming. That wouldn’t happen anyway though. Besides, even if I did what she claims, which I didn’t, they couldn’t prove it because so many different people use my computers. Additionally, looking at anything related to Shawna does not violate my protective order. She doesn’t have a protective order against me. The only way I could violate my own protective order is by contacting her or letting her around me, which I haven’t done.
- I rarely lie and when I do, it’s usually a white lie to protect someone’s feelings. I.e. do these jeans make my butt look big… No, of course not. I detest liars and anyone who knows me knows it. It’s one of the first things people learn about me. If anything, many people think I’m too blunt and honest. As for my blog, I’ve never lied in anything I’ve written, that would contradict my whole purpose for blogging. Shawna tried to use a lot of stuff I blogged against me, but it backfired on her because everything I wrote was true. All she accomplished was further alienating herself from my family by trying to make me seem like a liar and it made them believe me even more.
- As for the conversations between my brother and myself that I blogged about, it was 100% truth and Tori witnessed them. About me cutting him from my life, I blogged about that before he called me parroting what she said, so it was me who washed my hands of it. My readers know me for me more than a lot of people in my real life because I’m so blatantly honest about myself and my experiences and none of my readers are pathetic, except her.
- I’m sure David and Shawn’s life is great. They keep bouncing from job to job and trailer to trailer because they keep getting evicted. Shawna’s teenage son has been doing drugs and getting tattoos since he was thirteen. They’re so great that David stole his Grandma Pearl’s RV and burglarized her house for almost $20,000 worth of jewelry. He’s lucky that Pearl doesn’t want to be responsible for him going back to prison.
- Jacob and Taylor never volunteered to be witnesses for Shawna or David. I asked them both about it. They are upset that Shawna and David are trying to drag them into the drama. The good news about Shawna doing this is that Jacob and Taylor are starting to see her for what she really is: a lying, manipulative, vindictive bitch. She almost succeeded in pitting Taylor against me until Taylor seen these messages. Haha, another backfire on Shawna.
- As for the evidence presented during the protective order hearing, I did include the post of the poll with Aiden’s picture because that is where a lot of Shawna’s harassing comments were posted. I also presented every single post that had anything to do with Shawna because I didn’t want to be accused of omitting evidence. As for my rights to posting the picture of Aiden, legally3 I am Aiden’s aunt and the picture was taken with my phone, so I didn’t need permission from anyone to post it. Nor will I need permission to post the picture he/she attached to these messages.
- I was harsh in my responses because I was angry that she/he was trying to ruin my Christmas Eve and even though almost everything she/he said was a lie it was still hurtful because I thought it was coming from David. When someone is trying to hurt me, I instinctively retaliate, usually verbally. Once I realized it was from Shawna, it no longer affected me at all.
After my last response, I blocked his profile from being able to contact me. Then less than two minutes later, I received this message from Shawna’s oldest son’s profile.
Skittzz IsSuch Akittycat
- This is for my dad, he said to tell you that he would actually have to give a fuck about your fat stupid ass to want to prove shit to you, that he has the proof he needs, you arent and never will be a part of our lives and thats why you know nothing about anything, but i can tell you when my mom and dad were going to seperate there was a paternity test done, and lee knows about it all too. Guess you were left out cause no one gives a shit about you. Lol and dont bother harrassing me like you did my dad cause i am blocking you right now.
I blocked that profile without responding at all because by then I realized it was Shawna pretending to be Connor just like she had pretended to be Lisa, Tracy, David, and others, in the past. I also blocked her daughter’s profile so she couldn’t harass me on it. A few days later, I heard that she made her kids tell anyone who was friends with me they couldn’t be friends with them. Really pathetic.
The truth of the matter is, there still has not been a paternity test done because Shawna doesn’t want the truth of Aiden’s paternity coming out. It will prove her to be the lying bitch I already know she is. She has lied to people a lot about a test being done, but she will never show the results and then they figure out that she is lying again. She wants to keep David mad at me as long as possible because it buys her time from doing the paternity test. That’s the only reason she keeps trying to stir up shit.
The picture that was attached in a messages from David’s profile:
I still think he looks like Lee. Judge for yourself http://bipolarchick.net/blog/2009/08/which-man-is-aidens-biological-father/
David is 1, Russ is 2, and Lee is 3.
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I’m a thirty-something bipolar woman, an advanced tech agent with a pay tv provider, tax preparer for a local charity, current Tulsa inhabitant, and I’m one credit shy of an Associate Degree in Liberal Arts. I’m working on recovery from self-injury and working toward stabilizing my bipolar symptoms. Recovery is very important to me. I’ve been mostly single the past few years and plagued by a seemingly never-ending series of jackasses, assholes, and married men. I have no children of my own, but I have lots of nieces and nephews I love to spoil.