Protective Order Violation Reported
After much consideration, I decided to report Shawna’s protective order violations. The police officer left my apartment a couple of hours ago. He told me he would file the report and the DA will take it from there. He recommended I report all violations as soon as possible in the future, regardless of how trivial I may think they are. Part of the reason I waited was to get enough evidence together to prove the violations, but he told me not to worry about that because it is his job to investigate. Another thing that he said that was interesting is that this last violation may be a federal offense because she was harassing me while she was in Colorado. The feds take cyberstalking and harassment a lot more seriously than Oklahoma.
I don’t care if Shawna is prosecuted over the violations or not. I just want her to understand that I mean business and to leave me alone completely. From here on out anything I perceive as a violation will be reported to TPD. Also, if my brother starts harassing me for her, I will get a protective order against him too. I’m so done with this bullshit saga.
At the very least her latest stunt will give me grounds to get the protective order against her extended another three years or perhaps permanently. I hope to never hear from her again… I doubt that will happen though. The bitch just can’t let shit go.
I’ve taken precautions. I’ve moved, Facebook was her last method of attack, but now that is gone too. I blocked her, David, Sarah, and Tracy from contacting me on Facebook. I’ve also made it where only people on my friends list can message me on my personal Facebook profile. I’ve made my more personal blog posts viewable by logged in users only so I can track if she tries to stalk or harass me via my blog again and so she won’t be able to keep up with the intimate details of my life anymore. I don’t regularly use other social networking sites or chat on yahoo or anything like that, so she can’t bother me that way either. The last thing to do is change my phone number and I’ll be doing that next week.
On this day..
- I'm Almost Finished - 2008
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I’m a thirty-something bipolar woman, an advanced tech agent with a pay tv provider, tax preparer for a local charity, current Tulsa inhabitant, and I’m one credit shy of an Associate Degree in Liberal Arts. I’m working on recovery from self-injury and working toward stabilizing my bipolar symptoms. Recovery is very important to me. I’ve been mostly single the past few years and plagued by a seemingly never-ending series of jackasses, assholes, and married men. I have no children of my own, but I have lots of nieces and nephews I love to spoil.