All has been quiet on the front the past few months, since shortly after the judge granted the protective order against her. I’ve seen and talked to my brother a few times since then but haven’t heard a peep out of her and it hasn’t bothered me a bit. In fact, the only time I’ve even given her a thought is when someone else brings her up. Her absence from my life and the resulting peace has been great. Filing for the protective order was the best decision I could have made.

I’ve heard bits about her here and there, especially during the few weeks my mom stayed with them. The only new thing I heard was that her friend Lisa paid for the DNA test and that Aiden is ’s biological son. I didn’t believe it for a second though, and neither did anyone else in my . After a couple of weeks, told me that Shawna had lied about the test being done. I wasn’t surprised a bit. Shawna is a pathological liar and has a hard time being honest about anything.

I hadn’t thought about her again until last week, when I had to give the family member she stirred so much shit up about a ride home from . I had been around him a few times since the truth came out, but never alone, and we hadn’t talked about what happened between us so many years ago. Since we were alone he took the opportunity to broach the subject. It was highly uncomfortable, but after almost 2 hours straight of talking about it, we have come to terms with it again and we both have closure. Now our relationship can start to heal. I only hope his marriage can do the same, but she may have done irreparable damage to it by bringing up all that dead history.

I hadn’t thought about her again until last night, when I opened up an email from Lisa, one of her closest . I almost didn’t open the email because I didn’t want to get dragged into more with Shawna. Nevertheless, I opened the email and this is what it contained:

Subject: clearing things up…

First of all I wanted to contact you myself and let you know I never wrote on your blog. Shawna used my email address to get on your blog to comment. Another thing is she told davids grandma pearl I paid for a paternity test for aiden. that’s a lie. My husband and I never paid for anything. and I never made comments about your . I would not do that. I lost my first baby. I let her and dave move in with me cause they had no where to go. they refused to get a job so I kicked them out. she told me about the blog and I let it go. you don’t know me and I don’t know you. She is a liar, thief, and I feel sorry for dave. he left her last week and had his sister jess pick him up and the next day he went back to Shawna. only because she refuses to give up aiden. I wanted you to know I didn’t pay for a paternity test and there was never a test done and that I didn’t write those things to you. ……Lisa.

My Response:

Thank you so much for clearing that up. I figured she was doing it. She pretended to be David, Tracy, and one of my exes from years ago as well. She was harassing me so much via my blog and text messages that I had to change my phone number and get a protective/anti-stalking order (for the cyber stalking) against her. Even though she didn’t have the balls to show up at court I still had to present my case and based on the evidence the judge granted a 3 year protective order. I knew she didn’t really have the test done because I know without a doubt the baby isn’t David’s. He looks just like Lee. None of that really bothers me anymore. My brother made his choices and it’s on him now. I know that I did everything in my power to protect him, I even was going to split the cost of the test with my sis and cousin, but he has to learn things the hard way, just like the rest of our family. Shawna fucked me over when I let her live with me a few years ago so I understand how you feel. I doubt David will stay with her much longer, he just wants to make sure he gets rights to Aiden.

Her reply:

Well im glad you are not mad at me for her bullshit. I have been friends with her for 10 years and its the same bullshit every time. she don’t get her way all hell breaks lose. she let connor who just turned 13 get 3 tattoos and lets him smoke weed and drink. if dhs gave him a drug test right now he wouldn’t not pass. I read your blog all the time now just to make sure she isn’t using me to get to you. tracy is just as bad as she is. and I think aiden looks like russ lol

by the way…she reads your blog every day. she gets on it 3 or 4 times a day just to see if you wrote anything. she is completely obsessed with you. dunno why but she is. isn’t she violating the po when she does that?

My reply:

Yep, every time she logs in it’s a violation of the protective order, but I would need a witness in order to report it because I don’t have her IP address and she has wised up enough to stop leaving comments.

Her reply:

yeah she said I was just like you when I kicked her out. I was like THANKS BITCH LMAO I don’t give 2 shits what she thinks. everything you said about her in your blog is the absolute truth. that’s why she gets so mad lol she bitches to dave and he ignores it. so some comfort on your side he will not let her talk shit about you. that’s one of their MANY fights. she has nothing to do with aiden. dave is the only one who takes care of that baby. she said it was planned and that’s bullshit lol. she trapped him just like she did with kendall.

My response:

ROFL! I bet that pissed her off. I don’t care what she thinks either, obviously. I’m glad to know he doesn’t let her bash me to him. I know they have a lot of fights, he’s told me as much and when I do get to see or talk to him he does tell me he loves and misses me. She may have taken him from me in the aspect that I don’t get to see or talk to him all the time, but she will never be able to take his from me. I’m his sister and he knows how much I love him. I still think she is just a temporary fixture in his life. He won’t keep putting up with her shit forever, he’ll wise up, just like all her exes did.

My mom told me how she is with Aiden and it doesn’t surprise me, that’s exactly how she is with Branson too. Even if David isn’t Aiden’s bio dad, he would definitely be better off with him.

Her response:

oh dude I love david. I told him I would rather him stay and her go lol she says he don’t like me but he told me a diff story when he came back to get more of his stuff. he would leave her if it was not for aiden. she got pregnant just to trap him. he is realizing it now. I hope she does know im talking to you. cause she knows all of her lies are coming out. lol she’s pathetic dude.

We’ve exchanged a few more emails and I had her permission to blog about them. I think it’s funny that Shawna is still so obsessed with me and what I say that she checks my blog 3-4 times a day. I haven’t even written a word about her in months and she still obsessively checks my blog. Can you say PSYCHO STALKER?

NOTE TO SHAWNA:

Hey cunt, I know you’re reading this and you’re probably pissed as hell. You’re so pathetic: lying about having the test done, pretending to be other people so you can harass me , and checking up on me multiple times a day. You need to get a life. Keep it up and I’ll report you for violating the protective order. I’m sure Lisa wouldn’t mind being a witness now that you fucked her over too and I can sort my IP logs and find your IP, it’d be some work, but it’d be worth it to know your ass is in jail. Besides I can still report you from violating it back in October when you were emailing Carah about me and the shit you have no business talking about. I have copies of all those emails and Carah has already made it clear she would be a witness as well. I’m serious, leave me, my family, and my blog alone or you’ll be going to jail and once you’re locked up David can file for divorce and get sole custody of Aiden. I’d be doing David, our family, your , and myself a favor by sending you to jail. Keep trying me and that’s exactly where you’re going to end up. It is well beyond time for you to move on and stop making me the center of your world, you stupid pathetic cunt!

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