Dec

25

Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-12-25

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  • spending time with my man and my nephew #
  • Livin the life and enjoying every second of it… #
  • chillin with Paul's niece #
  • Spending christmas eve eve with paul and his family #
  • going to work… last day of training for my new position #
  • ice & snowed in with my man, Tori, & Dudney… first white xmas in several years… can't say I like it though #
  • Just introduced Paul to Pawpa and Granny… So far so good #

Dec

18

Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-12-18

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  • dealing with a broken pipe… lots of cold water everywhere. winter sucks! #
  • just got off the phone with Paul and he isn't mad at me :) #
  • Going to dinner with Paul and his family #
  • Vegging out with paulie #
  • getting ready for work… I'd rather be back in bed #

Dec

15

Next Stop… the Long Haul

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Yesterday was a very lazy day for Paul and me. After our tiff Saturday, Paul and I agreed that Monday would be a no-appointment day, so we were both off work. We spent the most of the day in my bedroom with a locked door. We had our phones on silent and just spent time together. It was nice to have to day to ourselves, despite it aggravating others.

We vegged out and watched movies, played videos games, toked, and talked. We did a lot of heavy petting as well. About 3am, he fell asleep. I was awake and sexually frustrated.

I was listening to Lithium on Sirius XM and “Alive” by P.O.D came on. It was one of me and Erick’s songs. We’ve had a similar insomniac schedule for as long as we’ve known each other so I decided to text him. Read more…

Dec

14

Dinner with Paul and His Family

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Paul and I had a rude awakening yesterday morning. My grandpa walked into my room without knocking and turned on the overhead light. Paul and I was sound asleep and naked. Apparently, I was asleep on my back and the blanket wasn’t covering my breasts.

I instantly woke up when the light came on and I turned onto my belly as quickly as I could. I’m not sure Pawpa saw anything or not and I’m sure not gonna ask him. He should’ve known better than to just barge into my room like that anyway. After Pawpa left, Paul’s aunt barged in and then my mom. We were starting to get very pissed off about it, so we locked my bedroom door and went back to sleep.

A couple hours later I had to get up for work. I knew I’d only be working half a day because Paul talked me into going to his family’s Christmas dinner with him. They planned to have it the 13th because many of them are going to be out of town for Christmas.

I was nervous about going and I had been worrying about it for a few days. I was afraid they would all hate me or vice versa, but it was important to him that I be there, so I sucked it up and went.

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Dec

13

Communication is Fucking Hard

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Friday night, Tori, James, Taylor and Jacob spent the night. I took off work Saturday to deal with the busted pipe mess. Paul called around noon and wanted to see me. He wasn’t mad, but he did give me hell about not taking his phone charger back up to the bar for him.

His step-aunt, Stacey, was with him when I picked him up from Preston’s house. Apparently, she had a blowout with her man and she needed a place to crash for a few days. I didn’t really want to take in another stray, but I wanted to help her for Paul.

She and Taylor went with me to take him to a private job. I don’t know exactly what goes on during those housecalls and I really don’t want to, but my imagination was running on overdrive and I copped an attitude with him when he got back. My feelings were amplified by hormones because I started my period the day before.

It was obvious I was upset and he wanted to know what was wrong. The core issue was I hate the housecall part of his job, but I didn’t express that immediately. I tried to be nice about it because I didn’t want to start a fight, but he kept pushing the issue, he wanted to know why exactly I was upset and what he could do to fix it. He kept talking about communication and how key it is to a successful relationship.

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