Archive for October, 2009

Shawna's House of Cards Will Fall

2 years ago
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I thought I’d never see the day that I regretted my friendship with . Well, obviously, that day did come. I wish I didn’t get sucked back in the last time we had a falling out. I would definitely do things differently if I could.

Truth be told, there was always a part of me that didn’t like who she was. I saw her manipulate man after man to get what she wanted. I was a little envious of how she would get them to do her bidding, but mostly, I was disgusted by her behavior.

I knew the things she did was wrong, but I never made a move to intervene because she was my friend and true protect each other and they never stab each other in the back. I overlooked the wrongs she committed against me in the past because she was my friend and I loved her, flaws and all. I was naïve enough to believe she felt the same about me. Now I realize I was terribly wrong. I was just another expendable sucker to her and she turned on me for not standing idly by while she trapped my brother.

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All Lies Eventually Come Out

2 years ago
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I have discovered another one of ’s lies. Two months ago she had told my brother that Lee called her and said that I told him the baby was his and he needed to step up and take responsibility for his son. She also said that Lee intended to be a part of the baby’s life. had called and confronted me about it. I hadn’t done what she accused me of and said he’d give me the benefit of the doubt about it.

At the time, I believed that Lee did contact her, but I didn’t know how he would have found out about what had been going on. A week or two ago I started questioning what was going on with the Lee aspect of the . I still didn’t know how to get in touch with him. One night, I was cleaning out my email box and found the confirmation from MySpace where he had been added to my list last year. It had a link to his profile.

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Shawna the Abominable Cunt and the Protective Order

2 years ago
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didn’t have the nerve to go to the final protective order hearing on the 15th. I thought I would automatically win if she didn’t go, but that wasn’t the case. There was still a hearing; the only difference is she wasn’t there to lie about what had been going on. I didn’t bring my witnesses because I had heard Shawna didn’t plan to appear and I figured if there was still a hearing I had sufficient evidence to prove my case.

I showed the judge the comments that she made pretending to be other people – the ones I prevented from being posted on my blog as well as the ones that I did allow to be posted. I also showed him my cell phone records, a copy of the police report and the entire 25 page transcript of the text messages from September 29th. He looked at the comments and the first 2 pages of my phone records then he granted the final protective order for the full three years. He didn’t even have to look through the rest of my evidence to find that she was guilty of harassing and (cyber) stalking me.

I had talked to the night before the hearing and she told me that when she got home last Sunday night and Shawna were there. She said talked to her a little, but Shawna wouldn’t even look at her. She thought that was funny. Tori was unsure how long they were there before she got home, but she said they left shortly after she got there. I was curious how much bullshit Shawna tried to stir up before Tori got home.

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Cyberstalking & Harassment – written 10-3-09

2 years ago
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After a lot of thought and discussion with close and I decided to file a complaint with the police against for harassment and cyber-stalking. I got sick of handling the burden. I was putting up with her bullshit for months with the hope that it would soon end. I figured the situation would finally be resolved once the baby was born and his paternity was proven by a DNA test. Despite her claims that she wants the test done she continues to delay it any way she can, even after , , and I offered to pay for it.

I reached the point of giving up after a several hour long text message argument with her on September 29th, the day the test was supposed to be done. I want her and her friends to leave me and my blog alone and since they don’t listen to my requests I took legal steps to ensure my protection. I used other means at first: I blocked her from my MySpace and Yahoo messenger several months ago; I made my MySpace profile private last month, and had my phone number changed on September 30th. (more…)

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