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Oct
31
Shawna’s House of Cards Will Fall
Filed Under Family & Friends, Relationships, Thoughts | 2 Comments
I thought I’d never see the day that I regretted my friendship with Shawna. Well, obviously, that day did come. I wish I didn’t get sucked back in the last time we had a falling out. I would definitely do things differently if I could.
Truth be told, there was always a part of me that didn’t like who she was. I saw her manipulate man after man to get what she wanted. I was a little envious of how she would get them to do her bidding, but mostly, I was disgusted by her behavior.
I knew the things she did was wrong, but I never made a move to intervene because she was my friend and true friends protect each other and they never stab each other in the back. I overlooked the wrongs she committed against me in the past because she was my friend and I loved her, flaws and all. I was naïve enough to believe she felt the same about me. Now I realize I was terribly wrong. I was just another expendable sucker to her and she turned on me for not standing idly by while she trapped my brother.
Oct
30
Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-10-30
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- chillin with tori and beau … http://lnk.ms/2gTCL #
- chillin with Tori, Tim, Dudney, Auntie, and James … http://lnk.ms/2gfck #
- drinkin water downed jager… damn shady ass roomies! … http://lnk.ms/49X4C #
- partying with some coworkers … http://lnk.ms/49ZDY #
- home now… and drunk … http://lnk.ms/2lybp #
- getting up and around… gah, I don't wanna go to work today #
- off to the grind… I'd rather be in bed #
- just got home from the minor E.R. I have pneumonia & a bad UTI #
- gotta go get my script filled and get cigs before work… pneumonia and I'm still smoking, no lectures please #
- sick and hurting, not going to work today #
- watching ghost adventures live with my roomie and online #
Oct
25
All Lies Eventually Come Out
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I have discovered another one of Shawna’s lies. Two months ago she had told my brother that Lee called her and said that I told him the baby was his and he needed to step up and take responsibility for his son. She also said that Lee intended to be a part of the baby’s life. David had called and confronted me about it. I hadn’t done what she accused me of and David said he’d give me the benefit of the doubt about it.
At the time, I believed that Lee did contact her, but I didn’t know how he would have found out about what had been going on. A week or two ago I started questioning what was going on with the Lee aspect of the drama. I still didn’t know how to get in touch with him. One night, I was cleaning out my email box and found the confirmation from MySpace where he had been added to my friends list last year. It had a link to his profile.
Oct
23
Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-10-23
Filed Under Misc | 3 Comments
- going to bed … http://lnk.ms/3YsH3 #
- got off work early… watching the original "Hairspray" with Tori #
- The ripple effect from the feud with Shawna is a tsunami that is hurting my family. There isn't even a word bad … http://lnk.ms/2BMWm #
- relaxing and enjoying a day off work … http://lnk.ms/2HDhS #
- going to work … http://lnk.ms/2QdyD #
- ok, I'm awake, what more do you want? … http://lnk.ms/3wShv #
- OMG! She is such a lying a cunt, is she even capable of telling the truth?!? … http://lnk.ms/3yqlH #
- OMG! She is such a lying cunt, is she even capable of telling the truth?!? … http://lnk.ms/2XY6B #
- going to pick up Tori, the relocation guide came in today … http://lnk.ms/2XmYD #
- chillin with tori… we want it all, and we want it chocolate covered … http://lnk.ms/3zDlg #
- enjoying the greatest herb of all… … http://lnk.ms/2Y3M0 #
- working … http://lnk.ms/40HGj #
Oct
17
Shawna the Abominable Cunt and the Protective Order
Filed Under Events, Family & Friends, Flashbacks, Relationships, Thoughts | Leave a Comment
Shawna didn’t have the nerve to go to the final protective order hearing on the 15th. I thought I would automatically win if she didn’t go, but that wasn’t the case. There was still a hearing; the only difference is she wasn’t there to lie about what had been going on. I didn’t bring my witnesses because I had heard Shawna didn’t plan to appear and I figured if there was still a hearing I had sufficient evidence to prove my case.
I showed the judge the comments that she made pretending to be other people – the ones I prevented from being posted on my blog as well as the ones that I did allow to be posted. I also showed him my cell phone records, a copy of the police report and the entire 25 page transcript of the text messages from September 29th. He looked at the comments and the first 2 pages of my phone records then he granted the final protective order for the full three years. He didn’t even have to look through the rest of my evidence to find that she was guilty of harassing and (cyber) stalking me.
I had talked to Tori the night before the hearing and she told me that when she got home last Sunday night David and Shawna were there. She said David talked to her a little, but Shawna wouldn’t even look at her. She thought that was funny. Tori was unsure how long they were there before she got home, but she said they left shortly after she got there. I was curious how much bullshit Shawna tried to stir up before Tori got home.
