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Shawna and Me

This entry was posted on Saturday, September 20th, 2008 at 11:58 am

and I recently had a conversation about many important things. One of them included discussing what would happen to her daughter if something happened to . Her sons both have their fathers, but Sarah’s biological father is not a part of her life. has stepped up to take the role of her father figure. asked me if I would raise Sarah if anything should ever happen to her. I was profoundly touched by her request. It is not every day that someone asks you to be prepared for something as important as raising a child. I gladly accepted.

and I have known each other for about eleven years now. We have been through some catastrophes, as well as some great times together. There are difficulties in every relationship and over the years, we have made mistakes regarding each other. However, we each other very much and we are always able to get past any misunderstandings or misdeeds because we actually communicate with and understand one another.

There have been times we have not been a part of each other’s lives due to growing apart or other circumstances, but we have always found our way back to our friendship. All the bullshit that happened with and recently has caused me to truly value ’s friendship and not take it for granted. I will not let anything or especially anyone come between and me again.

I have held on to the philosophy that everything happens for a reason for so long it has become ingrained into my thought processes. Often, when things happen that I do not quite understand I dwell on them until I can make sense of their purpose in my life.

I have concluded that the primary reason my friendships with and were shaken and most probably destroyed was to bring and me closer together again. Goddess knows has stepped up to be here for me through this bullshit and I her even more for it. Her true friendship is worth the sacrifice of the superficial friendships I had with and .

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