Mommy Dearest
I regret letting my mother move in with me. I took her in because she lost her home and there was a Grand Canyon-sized gulf between us I wanted to bridge.
I thought she may have changed and I wanted to forgive her for not protecting me when I was a child. Perhaps she did the best she could, but it obviously wasn’t enough. I still had many negative emotions toward her, but I seized the opportunity to rebuild our relationship despite my better judgment. I hoped that things would change between us and we could become closer to each other emotionally.
Those hopes have been dashed. I can’t stand my mother. I have tried to forgive her, but she hasn’t changed one bit. She is every bit the bitch she was when I was growing up. Actually, I think she’s more of a bitch now. I know I’m not supposed to admit it, but I can’t help it. I don’t hate her, but she is intolerable. I’m not sure how much more of her I can handle before I blow up. I’m not a violent person, but I can be pushed. Right now, it does not seem extreme, it seems justifiable.
I’m still angry with her. I feel the desire to bloodlet because I’m afraid if I don’t decompress before she returns then I will blow up on her. I don’t want to hurt my mother. I just want her to acknowledge the abuse, most of which she allowed, and I want an apology. I deserve that much.
On this day..
- Shit or Get off the Pot - 2012
- Confession - 2007







I have recently discovered your blog and haven’t had the chance to do a proper catch up yet, so forgive me if my question may seem stupid (or you may have spoken about it already), but have you tried telling your mum how you feel? Not an easy thing to do granted and I guess it would be even harder for you considering what you have lived, but who knows, it may clear a lot up.